Your life and your path is unique to you. No matter the similarities, no one else’s life can truly compare to it. Hence, even if we won’t admit that we do it, each of us must move away from caring about what others may think about our lives. But do so not just in your words, but with your positive actions and decisions you make in your lives. From a young age, most of us are conditioned to want to conform to the norm. We get caught up in this desire to fit in, so much so that any deviation from what we or others consider normal in our relationships, careers, family life etc is deemed as a failure.
What you believe your potential to be should be based on your own individual values, experiences and personal journey. Decide what this is for you and hold onto it. You may already have this, but at times, especially following tough situations you may need reminding. This is okay. Take this time. By doing this, you allow yourself to truly live out your fullest life.
J. Idara
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